more ok cupid dog-whistles
takes care of herself = you are not fat
active = you are not fat, and won’t ever get gat
hwp = not fat
eats right = not fat
fun = not fat
In which Ciji is a genius.
One of my general ok cupid rules is that if a guy mentions his thoughts and/or requirements about my body anywhere in his profile, he’s automatically disqualified, no matter what those thoughts are. If you care enough about my body that you’re willing to put requirements right up front, then I am not the girl for you.
Same goes for messaging me with anything even vaguely relating to my boobs. I know what they look like, I do not need you to tell me about them before I’ve even met you.
